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She pulled the battered box toward her and untied the faded ribbons. Lifting the lid, she inhaled deeply of the scent that meant childhood to her—her grandmother's floral sachet, mixed with her mother's cigarette smoke. Inside the box lay neatly wrapped bundles, each swathed in white tissue paper, tied with colored ribbon, a brief note tucked under the bow, in her grandmother's or her mother's handwriting…written on a "DON'T FORGET" pad. How could she forget?
No,
I haven't gone over to writing women's fiction; this is a true story.
Recently
my sister moved into a new home, and in the process she was purging her place
of unnecessary items. Her concept of
"necessary" and mine aren't quite in synch, but unarguably I have more
storage space than she does. As a
result, I am now the designated custodian of the hereditary purse collection.
We're
not talking ancient or valuable here, except for the family associations. What I have is about two dozen evening purses
that belonged to my grandmother and my mother, and which date from roughly the
late 1940s to the 1960s (including a tasteful black clutch I carried to my
first formal dance in 1967). And many
are beautiful. |
| My grandmother, in the purse years |
As
I've no doubt mentioned before, my grandmother left her husband, after he'd
decided he wanted to be a dairy farmer in Maine and failed, and she moved to
New York City, where she found work during WWII. When I say she found work, there's a story
there too: she was barely scraping by
when she attended a funeral in New Jersey for an old family friend, where she
met someone who was instrumental in getting her a job at Lipton Tea (and a ride
back to the city, saving her the train fare), where she rose to the position of
Assistant Director of Human Resources before retiring in 1958. I'm guessing that the Golden Age of the
Purses lies between 1945 and 1958, and I know the purses (along with my
grandmother, of course) attended some fabulous events, including a dinner with the
Queen of England.
So
the purse collection speaks of another time and place, the glamorous New York
when there were still night clubs and big name bands, where you could sing along to
golden-age Broadway musicals, and dine at the 21 Club or Le Pavillon or the
Waldorf. And you had to have the right
purse for every occasion.
Most
of the beaded purses are French, a few Belgian, and the beadwork is elegant and
intricate. Most came from a small
boutique called Henri Bétrix, on Madison Avenue. I was probably there at some point—shopping
was one of our traditional school-holiday pastimes when my sister and I visited
my grandmother, and we were familiar with most of the high-end boutiques on
Fifth Avenue and Madison Avenue, not to mention Tiffany's (we used to go in and
try on diamonds for fun, when I was a child).
There
are those (like my sister) who would argue that I shouldn't be keeping such
useless stuff. But as long as I have
space I'm going to hang on to things like these purses, not only because they
belonged to people I loved, but also because they capture a moment in time,
from a lifestyle now gone. And I still
visit the purses now and then and remember the women who bought them and
carried them, which now include me and my daughter (who in fact carried the paisley purse on a recent trip to New York City).
