tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post737984938823723779..comments2023-11-22T06:35:25.251-05:00Comments on POE'S DEADLY DAUGHTERS: I don't want to know!Julia Buckleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10270211923343731659noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-71174676750490544772011-11-02T23:14:25.508-04:002011-11-02T23:14:25.508-04:00I would want to know, and if there was a neighbor ...I would want to know, and if there was a neighbor abusing his wife and children, I would report that. The truth is easier to work with than all innuendo and lack of trust. We do live in communities that depend on their members to stay involved. (And then cross my fingers that I am kept safe!) That's one issue, isn't it? I watched that interview of Ruth Madoff and I found her to be very lil Glucksternhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09288522126331817172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-75690265807300708212011-11-02T22:12:32.030-04:002011-11-02T22:12:32.030-04:00In terms of cheating spouses, I do have sympathy f...In terms of cheating spouses, I do have sympathy for people who have them and don't know it. Since trust has been abused in such cases & the injured spouse rightfully would not have expected that type of mistreatment, someone not knowing is understandable & something I would sympathize with. I was afraid my previous post didn't include that discussion. I would want to know on Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-29580069591574797562011-11-02T18:15:31.139-04:002011-11-02T18:15:31.139-04:00I would definitely want to know. Those who truly ...I would definitely want to know. Those who truly don't know are wasting their time with bad people when there are only so many people in the world you have time to interact with & you will have missed out on some good ones if you fill your time with bad ones. <br /><br />I believe Mrs. Madeoff knew and the nuances I've been hearing on the book finalize that suspicion for me.<br /><Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-83802118121219240672011-11-02T17:22:20.742-04:002011-11-02T17:22:20.742-04:00I am also in the camp of people who want to know. ...I am also in the camp of people who want to know. If someone were taking advantage of me, I'd want to confront that. I also pride myself on being able to detect liars (but of course there could be liars laughing at me when I say that).<br /><br />As to whether or not the Madoffs would have known, I just read THE MAN IN THE ROCKEFELLER SUIT in which "Clark Rockefeller" convinced Julia Buckleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10270211923343731659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-86298410670142180152011-11-02T11:55:14.536-04:002011-11-02T11:55:14.536-04:00There are many times I'd rather NOT know but I...There are many times I'd rather NOT know but I know now from some past behaviour I regret, that denial is walking up a dead end street. But my sympathies go out to those who still do - understandable. Regrettably, very unhealthy. Oh, the dilemma's we face. Not easy sometimes. Good post, thought provoking.H. L. Bankshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962451438995683504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-7968618633906481752011-11-02T11:41:46.482-04:002011-11-02T11:41:46.482-04:00I'd want to know. I speak from personal experi...I'd want to know. I speak from personal experience. A long ago, bad first marriage & my ex was not a nice man it turned out. Several people who called themselves my 'friends' knew some of what was going on behind my back & did not speak up. When I began to figure out what a jerk he was, what hurt the worst was their betrayal, not the ex's. I wrote the entire lot of them Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10001557857341271451noreply@blogger.com