tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post3703099066807080880..comments2023-11-22T06:35:25.251-05:00Comments on POE'S DEADLY DAUGHTERS: Nasty PeopleJulia Buckleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10270211923343731659noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-32756020946153778672013-05-11T09:58:19.192-04:002013-05-11T09:58:19.192-04:00http://louisvuittononline.citationguide.net 17206 ...http://louisvuittononline.citationguide.net 17206 321627<a href="http://louisvuittonbags.citationguide.net/2013/04/26/louis-vuittoncom-as-they-say/" rel="nofollow">100% authentic discount louis vuitton handbags</a> louis vuitton bags sale uk authentic hermes belt price <a href="http://hermesoutlet.citationguide.net/" rel="nofollow">hermes belts for sale in pakistan</a> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-69805801823837182142012-08-03T07:20:45.775-04:002012-08-03T07:20:45.775-04:00@Ms Shiela, indeed and us readers were truly lucky...@Ms Shiela, indeed and us readers were truly lucky as well to have wonderful writers in this sphere.<br />No doubt~ you guys were always at your best.<br /><br /><br />Sherly<br /><a href="http://www.thermometreinfrarouge.net" title="thermomètre bébé infrarouge" rel="nofollow">Click here</a> to visit my website.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-61516916563769577712012-06-27T11:16:48.907-04:002012-06-27T11:16:48.907-04:00I'm still stuttering over an elevator encounte...I'm still stuttering over an elevator encounter during the Western Writers of American convention in NM a couple weeks ago. Going up, a couple women glanced at my name tag and one said, "Huh. Western writers." Her lip curled. "Big deal. We're fire fighters. We live the life. You just write about it." I didn't say anything--Hey! There were two of them,remember, and Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-35240664098744357962012-06-27T11:11:08.597-04:002012-06-27T11:11:08.597-04:00Confrontation is exhausting, and even if you "...Confrontation is exhausting, and even if you "win" you'll feel rotten about the whole thing. Trying to talk people out of their bad habits is pretty much pointless anyway. <br /><br />When the nasty person you've encountered is a stranger, I think the only safe thing you can do is get away as quickly as possible. You never know what an angry stranger will do.Sandra Parshallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17403144248962124138noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-68144642022047885752012-06-27T09:18:55.466-04:002012-06-27T09:18:55.466-04:00Sandy, this is a topic that had needed to be aired...Sandy, this is a topic that had needed to be aired. Thank you! I am also one who hates confrontation - I try to be a peacemaker until I am pushed against the wall by a few people who feel they have the liberty to dash out their own pathetic frustrations on me. I do have the ability to fight them back, but it is not worth the fight. This is one reason why my villains are such strong characters in Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-21043222994268063342012-06-27T08:35:10.734-04:002012-06-27T08:35:10.734-04:00I think most bad behavior comes from fear or from ...I think most bad behavior comes from fear or from a family culture of aggressive negotiation. The internet world puts communication out there unmoderated by tone-of-voice. I try to read angry-seeming communication with a kind or questioning tone of voice if I don't have tone-of-voice to guide me. If I can, I tell them how I disagree and try to negotiate. Past that, I try to let it be their Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-77442392065850164392012-06-27T07:39:08.245-04:002012-06-27T07:39:08.245-04:00I'm not a confrontational person either, so I ...I'm not a confrontational person either, so I tend to walk away if only for my sanity and if they persist in annoying me, I remove them from my life and amazingly life is better for it.Druhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07978384022143035332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-71580605548111490002012-06-27T07:25:47.739-04:002012-06-27T07:25:47.739-04:00I, too, have "punished" the evil people ...I, too, have "punished" the evil people in my life by putting them in stories, but I'm also pretty wimpy about confrontation in real life. When I worked outside of home, I almost became physically sick at having to constantly deal with the types you mention. My daughter finally bought me a book called *Dealing with People You Can't Stand*, which outlined ways to react and Author Peg Herringhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06714962328212252012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8056815460076050228.post-22057901527589105532012-06-27T07:19:13.445-04:002012-06-27T07:19:13.445-04:00I think we as writers are very lucky: we can skew...I think we as writers are very lucky: we can skewer the nasty people on a page (they'll never see it, but it makes us feel better) and we can create protagonists who are smarter, braver, wittier versions of ourselves. We learn from doing both.Sheila Connollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05165644581595919711noreply@blogger.com